Ask Abdi: Advice for everyday

I’m about to graduate. My girlfriend and I live in different states. We’ve been dating three years and I don’t know if its over – or to take the jump.
Many times we feel the pressure of getting married because we see it’s a common thing that happens after graduation. I may not be able to tell you what to do, but I can tell you this: marriage is a lifetime commitment. Don’t feel pressured to jump if you are not ready. Although, if you feel you are, then don’t rush.Love crosses borders, and extends beyond what we can imagine. Patiently wait in him, because his timing is perfect.

 

How do you move on when you realize you are not being valued anymore?
Moving on or letting go of someone or something can be very difficult. Especially when Love is involved. In order for you to move on, you must value yourself. Know how much you are worth, because then you will not settle for less.
Moving on may be hard, and there will be times where you may want to take a step back, but know that moving on many times is necessary. Will it be hard at first? Yes. But know that He will be with you through it all.

My girlfriend says I need to lose weight because I’m fat, but my friends told me she’s being rude and I should break up with her. What should I do?
What do you think of what she says? Even if she is saying this out of love, wanting you to live a long and healthy life, there are better ways for her to express that.
Your friends say one thing; do you agree? Many things can cross your mind when receiving a comment as such. You either may take it as a joke or take it seriously.
If you are feeling discomfort or unsettledness about her comments, know that they may be warnings that you cannot ignore. It is one of those relationship red flags that sometimes flashes before our eyes and are necessary to confront.
Remember that from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Just ask yourself, is that the heart you want in a person you love?
I think I’m losing my faith. What should I do?
Seek Him, hunger and thirst for Him. Our faith is something we must take care of and strengthen daily. Just like a seed planted in soil needs water, sunlight, and the perfect environment to grow strong and firm, so does our faith.
Seek that water, soil and that environment of people who can help you grow. Seek him with all your heart, because you will find Him. Hold on to His Word and write it on the tablets of your heart.
When we have God’s Word written in our hearts, there is nothing that separates us from Him. His Word becomes so powerful and strong within us, it gives us life.
Remember, we seek information in our individual devotions and formation in community with other believers.
How do you move on when you realize you are not being valued anymore?
Moving on or letting go of someone or something can be very difficult. Especially when Love is involved. In order for you to move on, you must value yourself. Know how much you are worth, because then you will not settle for less.
Moving on may be hard, and there

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